My best friend who happens to be a guy, has a long time girlfriend but he told me this 'You want my simple, straight, feelings? I love you. You are my best buddy and I want to fuck you'
Are his feelings deeper than what they appear to be or am I reading too much into things? Because He told me he loves me and wants to fuck me, I mean he also said once if things were 'different' he would marry me in a moment. We have been best friends for a long time.
Sucks I can't have him because I would love to marry him!
Most Helpful Guy
If he's a man his feelings will run deep.
Genuine LUST is a very powerful emotion. It consumes the body and mind. The infatuation. The overwhelming will to a single girl just ONCE is enough to keep a guy in a tailspin for months. "Just the one time! Just the one time!" he will have back in forth in his mind, keeping him awake at night. Give him what he wants.
Most Helpful Girl
You know him best if you have been close friends for this long.
More importantly - would you want to be with someone who can say things like this while they are in a supposedly serious, long-term relationship? It is very disrespectful to his girlfriend.
If you want to find out for sure where you stand, woman up and tell him you want to be with him, and see what happens. If he breaks up with his girlfriend and comes to you, with sex not being the first thing he wants to do, his feelings are probably genuine and deep... if not, then it may be a bit more complicated.1