I have never in my life worked so hard to get someone to like me... getting other guys only takes an hour for me but getting an Asian guy I lost count from the time I been trying I know what many of guys are Ganna say.. " just give it time" " I'm sure you will find a great Asian guy" " don't worry many Asians guys likes Middle East girl and so on" but das not true stop Giveing me hope... We all know I'm just wasting my time -.- i should just give up why try getting something das way out of my led... And to those da are Ganna say to give it time I can't I don't have much time left... -.-
Why is it so hard to get an Asian guy?
What Guys Said 21
It's because you're especially seeking them out. Rushing things and actively trying means you'll find the people who's in it only for your body, and I doubt that's what you want. Finding the right person is hard.. it's not something you just go an do. Especially for the people, like yourself, who prefers a certain ethnicity.
It probably doesn't help you that out dating culture differs slightly to that of the western.1
You seem like a lovely woman. Their loss.
By Asian do you mean East Asian? South Asian? Are there cultural norms that could be at work?
The recent TV series, Indian Summers, brought this issue to light. Indian man with white woman and vice versa, Parsis with Hindus, with Muslims, Muslims with Hindus. None of them easy peasy.
From what I understand the Japanese are quite fussy about this.
I knew a Taiwanese Chinese girl who was in love with a Vietnamese Chinese guy. The stick she got from her parents was unbelievable. I tried to console her by saying that her parents would prefer her Vietnamese Chinese guy to a white guy. She endorsed that sentiment whole heartedly.
You are in the US. Are you referring to American born Asians or Asian immigrants. You might have more luck with 2nd or 3rd generation Americans.1
Maybe it has something to do with their culture? Or maybe you're working too hard trying to get them to like you.0
Say it like this :
"Why so hard get Asian guy, me love him long time".
It's really all about learning the language. Now you try saying it...0
All of my eastern Asian guy friends have only ever dated other eastern Asian girls. It's a cultural thing I guess.0
Does it really have to be an Asian guy though? There's so many awesome gentlemen on this planet0
One hour? huh?0
because senpai doesn't notice you.0
It's not hard to get an any guy not just Asian guys0
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What Girls Said 9
Duh, it's not.
Open minded, westernized Asian guys will find you just as attractive as any girl.
I dont know if its just me, im middle eastern by the way. Asian guys are so hard to get? I swear i've liked some and they would say im 'pretty' to their friends, but i never got the guys?
I've noticed those who get the Asian guys beg it a lot.
But my advice to u would be just be yourself and wait for the right guy to come. If we 'beg' it we won't get respect. And remember you're not the only one who feels this way - I do too0
Let them get you themselves. They are not that hard to get.0
They are shy guys. Try approaching them.0
I am Asian and I know that some Asian guys prefer white women too. So, dont give up !0
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