Many times I go out with my sister and my brother and my brother and I end up paying. Whenever it's eating out, paying for something or lending money. In the end, I'm always giving her money. Also, she always buying clothes, make up and buy fancy expensive shit.
She is graduating and didn't get enough financial aid this semester so she makes us pay for a lot of stuff because she unfortunately had to pay her tuition (it wasn't a lot roughly $300) and had to replace her laptop. It pisses me off that I try to tell her she buys a lot, how much she owes me or try telling her stuff she could better save and spend her money (car, apartment, travel whatever). I don't know. :-/
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Stop being your sibling's Enabler, @kelvinmed, Or you will Keep Continuing down the Path of Pattern Destruction until She is old and gray.
You haven't said "No," You have not been stern enough a Straw Boss to tell her "It's your loss, I can't do no more."
I have helped myself with a member of my own family, And Finally... I had to Turn my Back and walk Away Yesterday.
People like this, Mistake your Kindness for Weakness.
Good luck. xx
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