And if not does that mean im an outcast or a loser?
- You are a loser if you reach your 30s and aren't married yet10%(4)15%(11)Vote22%(7)
- No that's ridiculous60%(25)59%(44)Vote59%(19)
- It depends (please explain)30%(13)26%(19)Vote19%(6)
Most Helpful Girl
Marriage is forever, what's the rush?
This is what always gets me. What's the point of getting married? Other than to save money on your taxes, of course. Most people will give stability and assurance as an answer.
Well, if your relationship isn't stable before you get married, and you aren't sure that your lover will just run off at any moment, then what makes you think that will change once you say I do?
In fact, if your relationship isn't stable now, it will certainly only get worse once you're married. Marriage makes people feel trapped because, by definition, it is forever until death do us part. Why get married sooner rather than later?
Most Helpful Guy
Hell, I was divorced before I hit 30. lol
Now I'm approaching 40, and I very much doubt I ever marry again. And I'm 100% good with that.
Some people aren't meant to marry young. Others aren't meant to marry at all. If you are generally stubborn, selfish, hate change to your own routine by other people, or have an extreme independent or isolationist streak about you, it won't matter what age you are, you should avoid marriage. If you find it easy for you to fuck anything that has a pulse, and the boundaries of a relationship are a mere technicality (if even that), then loyalty is an issue, and then you should avoid marriage.0