Lately, I've been getting the feeling that my crush isn't interested in texting me anymore. I know we all get busy, I get that. I work and go to school full time. He does too but our conversations have been slowing down. We only talk for maybe 2 hours total a day if I'm lucky. It use to be an all day type thing. My question is: how can I tell him that he doesn't have to text me if he doesn't want to? or feel obligated to message me?
I'm really blunt and would like to say it that way but I don't want to offend him.. any tips?
Most Helpful Guy
For one thing texting sucks, it takes too much time and you can say and cover off so much more! In addition, the person can actually sense your interest and feelings when they talk over the phone... emoticons don't cut it!
If you want a budding relationship to work out then can the texting and actually talk to the person.0
Most Helpful Girl
The are two ways that you could say this.
1. "I noticed that we now talk for maybe two hours max, instead of a whole day. Why is that?"
2. "When you started texting me less, I felt sad. I felt sad because I miss when we used to talk more. Can you text me more when you get the chance?"
Number 1 is the blunt way, and most likely requires you to state #2 after asking, because he might ask why you are asking.
Number 2 is more of the safer way. But remember that there is a way to be blunt without being offensive. If you can't figure out a way to soften your words at the moment, either take a break from texting and then text him later, or tell him that you don't mean to be offensive.
I hope I helped. :)0