Like he's trying to come across as a confident person but you can easily tell he really isn't. Turn off?
- Turn off32% (10)36% (8)34% (18)Vote
- Not a turn off23% (7)0% (0)13% (7)Vote
- Not a turn on or turn off26% (8)0% (0)15% (8)Vote
- It depends (explain)16% (5)0% (0)9% (5)Vote
- See results for guys3% (1)64% (14)29% (15)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
i think girls are too harsh on this poll. maybe he's genuinely trying to look confident for you because he wants to impress you... sure he may not always do a good job of it, but fuck, he's trying isn't he? not everyone is born confident or finds it easy to be that way.
if i can spot that he isn't confident, i can help him find ways to be, and eventually he may reach a stage where he can truly embrace himself and be happy with who he is.1
Most Helpful Guy
If the guy is doing a bad job at faking confidence, then of course girls aren't going to dig that act.
But if the confidence is faked well, she'll dig it because she thinks it will be real.
I have seen PLENTY of dudes fake confidence and bluff the confidence well, and women dig it like it is real... and eventually their success and comfort around women will morph the act into actual confidence.0