Over the years, I've had 4 people that betrayed me, including an ex girlfriend who I literally caught cheating in my bed when I was a HS senior.
Obviously I never took them back in my life but remained cordial. For instance if I bumped into one of them, I'll just say hi and that's it. Several of my times and others think I'm too nice and that if they were me, they would have thought about plotting revenge and wish for them to get run away by a car.
I get the hurt one feels at that moment but even then, I never thought about revenge. I wish them good in life and that one day they become a better person to someone else.
Most Helpful Girl
No it's freeing. You have wished them the best and are moving on without any burdens. That's a great feeling.0
Most Helpful Guy
It's to your credit. And it's better for yourself. You internalise and hold onto all this bitterness and anger, and it turns you sour. There's a real maturity to it. An understanding that people act out through pain, fear and unconsciousness not inherent nastiness.0