I'm trying to help someone who had a life of only pain and I don't know how else to help her. When she told me what happened to her I was crying on my keyboard. She was neglected by her parents, sexually assaulted and when she was pregnant she thought it was her only chance of happiness but there was a miscarriage and she wants to be with her baby :'(
Please, any advice; feel free to PM me if you have any advice you have gotten through whatever struggles you've had.
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The main thing to do with her is talk to her and as you talk to her, have a think about things - Talk to her about support sites for the things she has been through, go through research with her - If you live near her, offer to go to a counsellor with her or a group meeting - Encourage her to join forums or groups, I have a mild bi polar and the best thing I ever did is talk to other people who had it - Maybe talking to other people and hearing their stories/experiences will help her chose an path to help her cope - Tell her or you don't take it all on yourself, avail of as much help as you need - Often the best thing is to look at all the options and choose the one that you think suits the best in the current situation.0