More recently, I've been wishing my life could be like a romance anime >~< Everything just seems to go so perfectly and the feelings are always so genuine. I know it's fiction, but I was curious if anyone else ever felt the same way.
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Maybe just a little.
In general, I should be very happy with my love life - and I am. I've been dating a girl for 6 years now and everything is still absolutely perfect. Our love is still extremely strong and I know she's the type of person who will always be there for me, no matter what. We've been through a lot together and things have always worked out. In some sense, my love life IS one of those cheesy romance animes or movies. We also plan to get married in the near future.
However, there's one predicament. If I could choose, I would still want my perfect love but I would've also loved to get the opportunity to experience sex with a few other girls. I'm almost 28 now and I've only had sex with this one girl. Plus, since we are probably going to be married, I might only have sex with this one woman for my whole life. Our sex life is good but I can't deny that I'd love to have sexual fun with some other people as well.
Most young people have a phase of being wild and kinky before finding the right person and settling down. I never had this phase and instead I found my perfect girl very early on. I think that's generally really awesome but now that we've been together for a long time and the initial "honeymoon-phase" is over, I also sometimes get a little envious when I hear other people talking about their fuck buddies and one night stands and whatnot.1