I am 5 7' or 174cm tall, weigh 196 lb or 89 kg and have a hourglass body shape. Weight is distributed overall.
85 cm waist
114 cm hips and
110 cm bust
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To me its a turn off and even more so if you aren't making some effort to lose weight and get in better shape.
Its same with girls, how many want a scrawny guy that never works out and has less muscle than them, or a guy that really overweight? Not many.
Judging by your height and assuming you have a big frame, Id still think you need to lose AT LEAST 35.
I would aim for 160 lbs if I were you, then see how you feel from there and maybe got a bit lower but any higher is not healthy/attractive in my opinion.1