Most Helpful Guy
Wow, what a question! In all honesty, no one here can really answer that question because this is a hypothetical question, but the real answer comes from the heart in the moment during a real situation.
That said, that forgiveness depends on the dying person and what sort of hurt they have done. If it was my exGF, I would forgive because I loved her and always will. If it was her husband, I'd silently pray for him to die soon so I can piss on his grave and, maybe if I am lucky, fuck his widow (my exGF) on his grave. See you Hell you rat fucking bastard!5
Most Helpful Girl
If someone did something terrible to me-like rape me, beat me, hurt my family. I don't really see forgiveness as an option. I won't seethe in rage forever, but why should I forgive-they did something bad. I don't have to forgive someone who did something bad to me. Dying changes none of that.1