I may get hate for this question, but it honestly IS a thing. I have asked polls on here and seen proof in my daily life that attractive women can have their way with men.. Given they aren't super annoying or have gross personalities.
That said, I am an attractive woman. I have not had trouble with men being interested in me or asking me out. I am not stuck up, I'm just aware I have a pretty face and that people do admire me for my looks. Soo I have a guy on Facebook i hardly know. I hardly post to Facebook, I don't have many pictures either. We have hardly talked, only a few messages about travel and music... I asked him out a week ago. He responded to my message in a seconds, that of course he'd like to, and he asked what I'd like to do, if I could drive since he doesn't have a car, etc... Then he ghosted on me mid conversation. I didn't say anything, I just asked if he knew of any places to go. Then the weekend came and went and he gave me some reason as to why he couldn't contact me. I responded and asked him if he'd still like to plan a day and go out, and I said once his situation was figured out he should get back to me. (It should have been figured out this past weekend).. He has been online all weekend; he didn't open my message until last night, and then he never responded. I don't understand what I did? Why would he be so receptive in going out, and then just ignore me and semi-blow me off? My friend thinks he'll come around but I don't know I don't get why he wouldn't want to go out with me, especially since I don't think he gets much girl action. We have mutual friends and I know this. I'm just saying most single guys would accept and be gung ho.
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He's intimidated by you. He feel you're out of his league and he rather just ignore it and believe that a relationship of some kind will never ever work and rather save himself the disappointments. Other than that who knows? Only he is absolutely aware and certain to why he is reacting this way to you and acting this way.
Or perhaps he had some good shits and giggles by being receptive and then ditch and flake the last minute? Hey, you never know for certain, as sometimes people can do something like that all just to get someone mad or upset all for the fun of it.
Or maybe he's in the closet?1