Here I am, 21 and have never had a girlfriend (sorta). I feel like im just completely undesireable to every woman i come across. I have decent looks, dress cleanly, and have a athletic body (im in good shape) but its like I can't even get a girlfriend or anything.
I try to hype myself up and say, "yeah, damn i look good, i can get any girl i want!" but in reality I feel like no girl wants to be with me or anything...
Is there any thing I can do to be more attractive or should I just call it quits and throw in the towel?
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like you lack confidence and people can pick up on that most of the time.2
Most Helpful Guy
Instead of focusing on finding a woman try focusing more on your education and career. Put those at the top of your priority list. Move women further down for now. Once you get the knowledge you need and a job you enjoy doing you will feel more relaxed since you accomplished those big steps. Then you can go for a lover. Go step-by-step. It's easier and more effective than putting it all in one small time frame. That's what I'm doing. Turning 26 and never kissed or dated. F that. At least I'm having a big success in my education and now my career. Women will come later if I feel like I want one.1