My whole life I have had a hard time having girls reciprocate feelings that I have for them. I know it's not under my control, but I feel like going 0/15 or whatever it is at this point is pretty bad. I have plenty of friends who are girls but are not single. It's the girls I meet that are single that I always find myself as just another acquaintance. They seem to like me initially, we trade numbers, text about school and life and then when I ask her to meet up for lunch or something, they either make up an excuse or say yes and then flake on me. I'm 22 now, and am going to be finishing up my Bachelors next year and get a Masters the year after. Surely I'll meet plenty of women in the next few years, but it's hard to be patient when the desire is there and always growing. The latest girl I had a crush on for a year, and she graduated last year but apparently is going to be back doing some research/grad work or whatever. She is super athletic and I thought she was into me, but ever since the first few months that we knew each other she started not responding to texts or doing so half heartedly. I texted her somewhat drunk the other night to see how she was doing and she gave me like a four word answer, and I responded with something kind of deep to cheer her up and try to talk about life, and she never answered. Currently I text zero girls in my contacts because they want nothing to do with me, or I don't really want anything to do with them haha. It's ok if that's the only bad thing in my life (besides the job search during next year, that will be interesting but I should be ok) though, but I would love to eventually meet someone who I like and who actually stays interested in me for more than a few days. It's getting pretty frustrating
Can I have some girl advice? The ones I like never seem to reciprocate feelings?
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Try dating sites, or seek out the services of professional matchmakers. That's what I am planning to do once I am ready to date (currently sorting out my life and career), because I'm too awkward around women, and clueless about how to get them to reciprocate (just like you).1
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girls are always like this, they are just stupid, and if they want to be stupid thats their problem, so id just leave them alone and not ever bother them, even if one shows interest just pass it up, even if she tells you she's interested, tell her your tired of girls and there stupid bullshit ways, dont give into them, girls are never what they seem to be, and not what we think they are, so try to forget them.0
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