Everything in my life is going pretty solid. School is going well, going to graduate with a Masters in two years and hopefully get a great job that pays well, working on that right now. But girls have always been trouble. I have a fair amount of guy friends, but only like 5 or 6 that I consistently stay in touch with. I have friends who are girls, but none of them are single. Girls I've been attracted to have either: not liked me, liked me only as a friend, teased me so I thought they liked me but was wrong and they ended up ignoring me, or teased me and then told me they needed to "think about it, but thought I was really nice and sweet" when I asked them out so I ended up saying fuck that she's just trying to let me down easy. Basically I haven't ever had any luck with girls, and for now I'm giving up. I've wasted enough emotions and hope has all but gone down the toilet. I'm a pretty solid guy, but admittedly a string bean (6 feet 150 haha). I was thinking of maybe writing a book in my small amount of spare time in order to kind of make me feel a bit better about it as a thing I kind of laugh off, but maybe I shouldn't waste any more time dwelling on the negative aspect of life. Relationships with girls are the only thing I've ever truly struggled with in my life, and I don't think I'll ever get better at it other than just being able to be a good friend. For whatever reason, girls I like just don't seem to ever like me back/be willing to give me a chance. I'm finished putting in any effort when I get squat in return, and that's that. I hope I'll find someone someday as I am still very young, but am jaded for sure :( past experiences ruined my outlook on girls and relationships big time. I used to look forward to meeting them but now I avoid it almost entirely.
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