what i mean is: # of sexual partners, type of sexual partners, ethnicity of sexual partners, etc...
I have noticed a lot of these types of questions popping up on this site. i mean, it's not like you will always know the answer, even in real life. and if you don't know, than it shouldn't really bother you in the first place. because that shouldn't be the determining factor of your relationship.
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I think there's a fundamental difference between wanting to know a person's past and judging a person's past. I don't judge anyone for being promiscuous. Heck, you can suck of every single man between 18 and 90 in the United States. That doesn't make me condescend to you. However, I do want to know about a potential partner's past. Why wouldn't I? When I got to know my girlfriend, I wanted to know where she went to school, how she grew up, where she had traveled in her life, what music she listened to as a teenager, how many times she had fallen in love, how she had coped with difficult situations in her life so far etc. etc. All these and many other things are part of what makes her unique; what makes her her. Considering I was falling in love with her and wanted to start a relationship, of course I wanted to know what kind of person I'm getting involved with. Why would her sexual past be some kind of exception to this rule?
Also, while I don't judge promiscuous women, I personally didn't want to get involved with a girl who has a wild sexual past. When I was 22 and I got to know my current girlfriend, I was still a virgin. Had my girlfriend been one of those girls who have a very wild sexual past, we most likely wouldn't have fit together in terms of personality and character. She would have probably been a woman who likes parties and clubbing and things like that. I don't like these things and so it was important to know about her sexual past.0