Did you got over your first love?

I only ask cause I haven't :/
Does anyone else still get the butterflies? After years?

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  • I didn't
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  • We're still together
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Most Helpful Guy

  • How long are we talking for you? - I remember my first love but I think it is the time I remember more than the girl, if I met her now I don't think I would have your "butterflies".

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    • Well I met him when I was 10 and as kids we "hated" each other for four years before started being friends and I fell in love with him. We didn't get together till we were 19 tho and things whent south fast. Lots of things and friends getting involved. Now we both date other people but I still love him and sometimes I think he does too

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I did get over him after I see someone I like a lot. I stay beside him for about 4 years both as a girlfriend and as a friend. But moving on is not that difficult. You just need the intension to do that.

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    • Oh I so intent to and I tried so hard! I kinda gave up on moving on you know... Maybe time will help we had a fight two years ago and we're trying to get back at beeing friends but I still like him and sometimes I think he likes me too which sucks ass cause if he was cold maybe it would be easier

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    • You will. Stay strong 💪

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What Guys Said 22

  • I still dream about a girl I talked to every lunch in high school 3 decades on. I was very shy, but could talk to her. I even walked her home, only to be told that she was moving...

    This song "The kind of love you never recover from" makes me think of her...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kS5JSmPe6m0

    I know a couple; she sits in a rocking chair
    Working puzzles; he watches TV upstairs.
    She's got a secret she has never let out;
    A man she thinks he never knew about.
    She hasn't seen him in thirty years.
    The mention of his name doesn't bring on tears.
    If you ask her, "Are there any regrets?"
    She'll tell you, "No," but she never forgets.
    It was the kind of love you never recover from.
    Even though she found another one
    To take his place,
    She never will escape the truth.
    At times like this when the moon is right,
    When the air is foggy like it is tonight,
    She'll think about what might have been
    If she had just held on to him.
    I know a man who has done it all;
    He has sailed the oceans; climbed the mountains of Nepal.
    He lives high upon the avenue
    With a beautiful wife, lovely children, too.
    But there's a woman he still dreams about;
    Certain things he has learned to live without.
    If you ask him, "Are there any regrets?"
    He'll tell you, "No," but he never forgets.
    It was the kind of love you never recover from.
    Even though he found another one
    To take her place,
    He never will escape the truth.
    At times like this when the moon is right,
    When the air is foggy like it is tonight,
    He'll think about what might have been
    If he had not let her slip away from him.
    I read about a woman who said she never regretted anything she'd ever done.
    Such arrogant words always seem to be spoken by those who then die young.
    So here am I looking at you.
    Oh, tell me, what are we gonna do?
    Am I destined to be your regret?
    Are you that one I'll never forget?
    Years from now, will we curse the day
    You let me let you walk away?
    Isn't this too dear a price to pay
    For the freedom of going separate ways?
    This is the kind of love you never recover from.
    Don't tell me that I'm gonna find another one
    To take your place,
    I never will escape the truth.
    At times like this when the moon is right,
    When the air is foggy like it is tonight,
    I'll think how sweet life could be
    If you would stay with me, oh stay with me.
    This is the kind of love you never recover from.
    Don't tell me that I'm gonna find another one
    To take your place,
    And try to face the truth.
    Let me hold you close tonight.
    The fog has

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  • i did, I got over her within two years however after that, I found her very repulsive. Her personality and attitude stunk, she eventually wasn't even in the league to have such a stuck up attitude lol.

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  • No, unfortunately I didn't.

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  • I have dated but haven't had a love yet.

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  • I'm over her but I haven't forgotten her. She was my first so she'll always have a special place in my heart. I don't think about her everyday, but she does cross my mind once in a very blue moon.

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  • I don't think people really get over it in the sense of forgetting but if you're referring to moving on with a happy life.. of course.

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  • depends on what you call your "first". cause i personally tend to think that the first few crushes i had never were actual "love".

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  • Don't even remember her name
    Just a blurr image in my head..
    I loved her by heart
    And forgot her by heart

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  • Yeah, moved on!

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  • Nope. I still use her as a measuring standard for all new prospects even after 28 years even though I haven't seen her since 1990.

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  • Yes with the help of a divorce attorney :)

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  • The butterflies you're talking about doesn't mean you're not over , for me it simply means i don't wanna see her stupid face.

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    • Well I had that moment of hate but I know I still like him much more than I should.

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    • Unfortunately I see him a lot. And his girlfriend with my boyfriend and it's awkward cause when both of us started dating other people he got drunk and striped in front of me O. O
      He's a very weird dude hahaha

    • Ok it's weird now. Ping if something happens.

  • She turned out to be a betch so yeah.

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  • Yes, because it's long time ago.

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  • We're still together

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  • yep.. completely over her now

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  • No, never have...

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  • Nope, not really :(

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  • I have never been in love

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  • 18 girls are lying.

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  • I didn't

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  • Took 8 years but ya

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    • I'm at the 8 and it doesn't look like it's happening soon :///

    • Well it took a date or two and one very kink night in bed to help me get over

    • I kinda already have a boyfriend and all but I see him a lot and I always have the shakes and my legs get numb I feel like the most stupid person on earth ahahaha

What Girls Said 7

  • I still get butterflies when I see him, I still think that in the street almost all the guys with light hair are him, I almost always feel regret because of what I've done to him, I almost always repeat his name when I hear a word "love". I often worry how I lost my first and pure love because of my pride.
    Though.. I still think he was not my first love and I have never been in love, cause If I really loved him I would not let my pride to ruin that feeling. Of course It was not only my fault, he was very proud also...
    But It could be so beautiful and magical love story, If we didn't ruin it..
    Sometimes I think "what if"..
    What if we were together..
    What if I was not so proud and weird..
    What if.. What if..
    But life always goes to the right direction..
    I would never be same person as I am today, If everything didn't happen in a way as It happened.

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  • Yup I did! And I'm happier than I ever was.

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  • Yes. Over them years and years and years ago.

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  • I can't say I'm over him, but I'm not dwelling. If he showed up on my doorstep tomorrow and was willing to accept my lifestyle choices (which have changed drastically) I would probably take him back.

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  • i did, but only because he did something very, very bad. however, i appreciate the good qualities about him and he serves as an inspiration for what i would want in the future.

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  • Yeah after a long time though

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  • Of course.

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