hey guys! i m a senior in my school and up till now i ve never been in a relationship. not that i m dying for one either. i dont look unattractive nor am i dumb. but i pretty much all the time get sisterzoned. its beyond irritating after a certain point , i actually really liked this guy.. and he just called me thangachi (sister) in a flow today and it really sucked. infact i have many guy friends but all of them regard me as "one of the guys" . when i like a guy.. i tease the hell outta him coz thats my defense mechanism. i dont know what to do.. i dont wanna change myself but i dont wanna remain under this tag forever. since i m in india i can't just go up to him and tell him i like him and expect it not to be a big deal. now what should i do? how to get rid of this problem?
Most Helpful Guy
"sisterzoned" haha. Personally wouldn't date a girl with a ton of guy friends, but anyway... If someone doesn't see you as girlfriend/boyfriend material, appearance or personality isn't attractive to them, at least in anyway besides a friend. Certain people can be picky, if you treat them all the same and don't flirt with anyone it probably won't help your cause.0
Most Helpful Girl
Are you attractive? If yes, then I am more than sure that he doesn't see you as a sister.0