Eg do you care if someone says something bad about you or do you try and prove who you are to others etc
Most Helpful Guy
Not any more, I've learned to stop giving a fuck about how and what people think about me any more. Besides whatever they think won't really matter anyway. People like to judge others and will always judge others as you can't control how and what they feel or think about other people as well as myself. There will always be people that love to spread lies, and rumors and gossip and shit.1
Most Helpful Girl
It's natural for people to care.
However, I've bee through so much that I have a defense mechanism that allows me to quickly switch my thoughts and think of something else rather than dwelling on how someone feels about it.
if I spent each and every time taking to heart what other people said about me, I'd be in pieces.
In order to survive you have to grow a back bone or the world will eat you up.
So to answer your question, I've learned not to care.