What is your opinion guys? on a serious note how do you see it.
Guys, Is it bad for adult women to go after teenage boys?
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<18 no way. Corrupt one who isn't ready, no way. you mean like 18 yr old and you are 45+ and there are sparks? they are really immature at that age in general. the woman is probably looking to get that thrill of youth again, ok fine, and he wants experience... I'm sure he'd enjoy it.
obviously a short term thing right, just a thrill of youth for her and a fling for him? when he's 60, she's 90, so that not so good. When 18 I felt strongly for some older women (I always found them more attractive) and would have been thrilled to even get a kiss or a hug and you are talking more I'm sure.
Is it bad... you'll go to hell for eternity if you do... Just kidding... kinda. his mom may not like it, your kids may go into shock, your husband may not approve, blah blah... socially, not so good. I doubt it will look good on CNN or in front of the church congregation, or at the rotary club.
If you can stand up in front of your audience of friends and such if/when he brags about it and be ok with it, it is your life... you have some needs going on... You are doing that for a reason... maybe it is worth exploring what that is and if there is a healthier way to fill that void? Are you really emotionally hurt, just having a hard time finding a man, or someting else?
Personally, I think it is extreme. Then again, in WWII what age of women were those young boys lining up to have sex with in droves? probably older women or whatever woman they can find. Not unheard of.
I don't think it's bad. If they feel that they are right for each other and would make a great couple then let them be together. If they can be happy together then good for them. There are all kinds of couples out there. Some with a 20+ age difference. Things seem to work out for them.1
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I wouldn't advise to do it.3
I don't see a problem, it's what you like. If the boys you go after want it too, good for you. I just think that you have to be more patient with them, but I'm sure you know that already.1
As long as it is legal and you are not looking for a long term relationship then it is fine. It could be fun, but be prepared for how your friends/society will view it.1
I was with a 36 year old when I was 16
looking back it was great, with her teaching me so much about women and sex.
hypocritically, If my son had the same deal when he was 16, I would have wanted to maul the woman1
Well depends what you mean by adult, but if they are like +30 then yeah its pretty fucking bad.2
Its wrong especially at your age despite society and it's false projections young men are not invincible although they like to act that way despite the way they act they should be loved along with the mistakes that they make you are simply are preying on them is a simple worry that people should assume and have at that stage of life that they are in.1
Like there's no what-if it's just bad2
Don't do that!1
If they are above the legal age.0
I think it is actually good and I like them. Do you have someone in mind though?1
Sorry, but considering your age, to me that sounds like pedophilia...1
No teenage boy would disagree1
No that's pedophilia gross1
Yes, it is perverse.0
I really like mature women. I would be thrilled.0
It would be frowned upon by society but as long as they are of legal age and it's just sex then I guess it's OK0
I see it as weird, but I honestly don't see the problem with it. Fact is, most teenage boys would be quite okay having meaningless physical sex with an older woman. I know I would have, at that age.2
Whatever two concenting adults of legal age d9 in the bedroom is non of my buisness2
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