So there was this girl in my classes. She seemed sweet and down to earth.
However I guess because I wasn't studying properly and acting like a bitch in my group projects, she also changed. And started reacting back.
Our friendship/acquaintanceship whatever it was, soured. I think there was a little envy on both sides.
I later realized she had gotten honour roll that year. And the year before that. And the year before that year. It made me wonder, how perfect was she in her courses for her to get honour roll... wow.
I don't know why, but I almost can't live just knowing that she's better than me and that's unhealthy. Plus like I said, I don't think she's that big of a fan of me either. So I cut her off but with a lot of regret.
I wish her well in everything and realize this is MY problem I just feel so bad. Like I'm nothing because I didn't work as hard as she did.
I just think it's so unhealthy for me to be around her even on Facebook right now. This comparison thing will drive me mad.
I think this is the real problem. Not understanding that it's okay to be happy with what you have and not always think the 'right' thing to do is be better
Most Helpful Guy
So yeah it is wrong for you to be jealous of her. So stop. She's worked hard to be where she is , why hate on her?
And why does it matter that she's better than you? Are you really that shallow? Are you really that self centered? Are you really that immature? If so then I pity you because the world will eat you alive0
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Most Helpful Girl
It's what us women do sometimes, we get a little insecure about ourselves when we see another woman who has it all because we want to have it all too but don't. We're either jealous of other women because we're comparing our self to her, she's either a lot more attractive, a lot more funnier, a lot more this and that and we're so focused on that, that we can't see the good traits that we have. Women are also very competitive with each other, some of us just can't stand other women because we want to be the alpha female. Its like the jungle, lions fight each other for dominance... we do the exact same thing sometimes. So its understandable why you were jealous, everyone gets jealous of somebody sometimes.. but just because she has all that doesn't mean your not doing great yourself. Instead of hating her, use her as inspiration.. tell yourself if she can do it.. then so can you. hope this helps.0
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