Do you hold grudges?

If you do, why?


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  • I try not to, but I can't help it. I forgive, but I will never forget.

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    • 3mo

      That's just like me. I wish I didn't hold grudges but I can't fight that kinda feeling. I never forget, I don't know how to forgive either.

    • 3mo

      Same. It's a process, but to be real with you it's best to let it go, and move on with better things in life.

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What Guys Said 27

  • Yeah, I do. If I don't believe their apology is sincere (if there even is one) and/or they have wronged me on several occasions.

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  • No! It takes up too much time and too much energy. Easier to shrug your shoulders and move on. Makes you feel better much quicker!

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  • Yeah, I just use law philosophy to tell nurses something maybe about how to treat people maybe about management. the law comes from their idea. So they can't not fight against it. So they are speachless now but I am sick always about seeing them initial reaction. I does not me I dont hold grudges cause I always use the hole -1x-1=+1, when the situation is +1, then fuck them up.

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  • Very few.

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  • Meh not really, almost to the point that it's bad.

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  • Meh I don't have the time to hold grudges.

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  • No..

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  • I used to but it's not worth it

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  • nope i dont

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  • Nah not really.

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  • Yes because some people piss me off.

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  • No cause it's a waste of time. Confront instead.

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  • Naw, life's too short for that crap.

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  • Ofcourse I do, but reasonable ones

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  • Depends what it is

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  • I try not to, and if I do have any grudges held I cannot say I know about them

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  • Never

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  • Rarely

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  • No I don't.

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  • nope, thats stressfull

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  • yes once you upset me you're waking up next to a horse's head on your pillow

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  • Very few - for causing too much emotional or material damage

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  • Yeah, i do. Why shouldn't i?

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  • No, never. No point.

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  • nope.. its childish and a waste of time

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What Girls Said 22

  • I have Never been One to Hold a Grudge to my Dying Day, @babeeeone, However, I do Know many People who Do and... Will not Cave.
    There have of course been a Few exceptions here, dear, where I Forgive but don't Forget With... Second Chances.
    Good luck and Great question. xx

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  • Not a grudge, but I don't forget. I will be polite to you and move one. Maybe... I might just write you off and move on.

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  • I do.

    Because I'm just like that. I don't know...

    It's not like a major grudge. Just like... you cross me and I'll remember that forever. Your image to me will forever be damaged by that. Like... I'll never forget it.

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  • No, I just try to understand that everyone makes mistakes and I move on.

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  • No..

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  • Typically, no. I have a couple that I hold, but they're for big offenses.

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  • Yeah lol
    I don't know why. I just have a hard time moving on if someone hurts me badly.

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  • Well I remember when someone has wronged me, and I don't forgive it. It's just worse for some. If that qualifies as a grudge, then yes.

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  • I sure do not I forgive easily

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  • No, I dont. I usually just let go very easily.

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  • Not really, unless it was a huge deal. Usually, I'll act like nothig happened.

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  • Yes, because I don't forget easily, nasty habit

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  • Nah I do not

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  • Yea, I can for a bit, but then I get over it.

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  • Depends

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    • 3mo

      What does it depend on?

    • 3mo

      If it was something serious... I usually don't hold grudges. There are people who I will never forgive and forget though.

  • Lol nope

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  • Not very, it's bad to hold grudges

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  • no, I'm always chill :)

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  • I try not to.

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  • Yes.

    Because if you always let things go then it's almost like sending out the message that what that person did to you was okay, when it wasn't.

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  • It depends, I hold grudge against some people and I'm not forgiving them ever

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  • Yes because I hate people and I love to hold grudges against people.

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