Hi everyone i am asking this as i wanted to get some unbiased opinions so here goes im in early labour planning a home birth but the only problem is me and the fathe are not together any more and he wants to be at the birth and i Don't know what to do so girls what would u do and guys how would u react not being allowed at the birth if u wanted to be there
Should I let my ex know im in labor so he can be at the home birth?
What Guys Said 3
If I was not still dating the girl, I would understand her not wanting me to be in the room seeing her exposed "in all her glory." However, I would want to be waiting close by so that I could hold my baby as soon as possible. How you treat him sends a signal about whether you really want him involved in this child's life. Every child does better if they have both a mother and a father so, for the sake of your child, include him in as much as possible and act as if you expect him to always be a strong participant in this child's life.0
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He should be allowed to be there. I wouldn't want to be there even if I was still with the girl because it is very gross to see it. (I had to see one on video in a class I was in before)
Anyways, it's the right thing to do, to let him be there if he wants to.0
He is the Baby Daddy and needs to be there.0
What Girls Said 2
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