My group of friends and I were talking, and they said if I put myself out there, I'd definitely be able to "get girls." Just hearing that made me really upset, it sounded like to me, they viewed girls as property and ranked themselves higher amongst one another according to who got more girls. Am I overreacting?
Most Helpful Girl
I agree, that bugs me too. Particularly when guys on this site ask questions like "how do I get a girl?" They're just thinking about it in completely the wrong way. You don't get a girl like you get a new TV. You wait until you meet a girl you really like/are attracted to, then decide you want to spend more time with her.0
Most Helpful Guy
its not property, its a sense of belonging. if you get together with a girl you belong to each other. if the goal is a relationship then you belong together for the entire relationship, if you do a one night stand, then you belong together just one night. thats how i see it. getting girls is a better phrase than getting pussy i personally think. but i also think that getting together with girls is the best phrase for it.0