Have You Why Or Why Not?
Girls Have You Ever Walked Up To A Guy And Said He's Very Cute, Guys Have You Ever Walked Up To A Woman And Said She's Very Pretty?
What Girls Said 16
Yes I have :)1
Only when i was young, single and advertising myself. Lol1
I'm too shy to do that unless I'm already dating them. 😳1
I was in a good mood and he caught my attention ( which is rare)
Only times when I'll do it.
I didn't become friends or anything with everyone I said it to though.
My ex did that to me and asked me out when he first saw me. Well i've never done that before but i wouldn't have the gut to do that really :)1
A few times. I go to other people's kids and call them cute.
... men my age scare me.1
Yeah I did that to a guy at starbucks once, just cuz.1
Yeah it's fun to hitting on someone. It's flattery1
No but I have walked up to a guy and said YOU BASTARD!! And kneed him in the balls. Does that count?2
No I haven't because I am too shy to do that :)1
What Guys Said 20
Yes I have, one of my fav things to do with women.
when I did this years ago from a nervous introverted vantage point, I bombed out... even had women mis interpret and think I was insulting them or something... never figured that out.
Now what I do is just make whatever complement that comes to mind that makes them special to me. I've said "you are stunning"... that is really good because it stimulates conversation. I've commented "that color is perfect for you, brings out your color..." she beamed after hearing that. The key is to not plan and make crap up but say something you genuinely feel... girls/women love that. I dont' always pursue further maybe I should, depends how I feel... like if I have energy, or think of something else to say and can engage further... not dating already, etc..1
When I was in high school, I'd stand on the Boardwalk every night and say similar things to every attractive tourist girl that walked by. On a good day, i'd hook-up with maybe 10%, but I recommend it to anyone who wants to overcome shyness.1
Something like that, yeah, haha. Just in party situations though when everyone is a few beers deep😂 But it's gotta be done in such a way that you come off sincere and safe, and not creepy and overzealous👍1
I recall doing that years ago. I was forcing myself to get over some shyness/lack of assertiveness with women and it was an assignment I gave myself. I didn't get a date with the girl, but I did get over my shyness.1
Yea, it works great but not all the time.
You gotta have thick skin if you want to go after girls. It's a numbers game and prt of the skill is learning how to pick out the ones who are and aren't interested.
Sometimes I like to do it just to say it because I know it means a lot to them.1
yeah i have a few times. and i've been told that a few times as well1
This girl I liked told me I'm cute. That was when I realized she must be blind.1
Yeah I did. Why? Because she stood out1
It's tough but i find it endearing i mean being confident helps but i haven't yet lol1
Can't remember ever doing that.1
a girl was once staring at me and then she whispered something to her friend and her friend shouted "if u think he's cute, just talk to him"
she must be blind lmfaooo1
No i haven't2
Yep she at the check out in a Staples.1
Yeah i did that once ^^1
I had a girl call me cute before, but then again she was known to be a flirt.1
No because a woman probably hears that too much. You wanna stand out, not say what everyone else says.
I think it's only ok to say that if you're on a date or hooking up with someone, as long as you don't overdo it.0
yes i have done that a lot, i mean the only reaction i got was "Thanks you're good too" :P0
To woman... yes... to a man... lol NO.0