I've been dying to hit up a bar or a club , the only problem is I have no one to go with.
Is dressing sexy and going to hear music alone just asking for trouble?
I get hit on like crazy when I'm not in that environment so I could only imagine when I am in it by myself.
I really want to enjoy myself , but feel as if I'm doomed to be alone at home because I have no one.
This sucks lol.
- Yes, a woman should never do that.Vote A
- No, it makes independence but be careful!Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Flying solo to me is often the best way to meet people (friends usually for me, great love interests usually aren't found in those types of places).
You have the most room to maneuver and hop from place to place at will.
I'd say go for it but just be careful and try to take it very easy on the alcohol if you drink any. Go for a good time and to dance and avoid getting desperate. You should be totally fine with just enjoying yourself even if you come home alone.
And maybe try to befriend some girls on the way if you can so that you'll start building up friends with whom you can go such places whenever you like.0
Most Helpful Girl
It depends on what area/country really. Some places its been completely fine for me to wander by myself (looking for my friends mostly after losing them) and others not, but you should always be careful and cautious. I lost my friend once and a guy who kept trying to hit on me wouldn't leave me alone and basically dragged me to an empty corridor at the club and tried to force himself on me (luckily only got as far as attempting to finger me) until my friend found me somehow fortunately which was the only way I got out of the situation.
It is a risk but a fairly small one, you have to make sure you show strongly and clearly (at times rudely if you have to) that you don't want the guy to keep them off.
Also you'll be hit on double that of what you would if you were with a friend because they think its far easier to hit on a lone girl. Also your body will constantly be touched like you're some kind of piece of clothing in a store where people feel on you to feel the form and texture loool... And also be careful with guys buying drinks for you, my drink has been spiked in the past and it was awful (luckily got away from the situation cause friends, again)
You will be like a prey in a savanna, but have fun either way, and be safe. :)1