I'm a freshman and I have a girlfriend, I've been looking at girls parts and places and I imagine things I am ashamed and I feel very guilty of.. Do you guys have tips and tricks to help me stop thinking and imagining bad things?
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Don't feel so bad. I never met a young teenager that didn't have those thoughts and that includes me! Hell, a lot of men have those thoughts until they die, not just teens. When you find yourself doing this, stop looking and try to think about other things like school, your male friends, mom and dad, brother and sister, etc. Those things will distract you and kill the mood. Thinking the things you do, though they may be nasty thoughts, hurt nothing as long as you do nothing with it. It gets better, but probably not for a few years. Maybe never. Don't be so hard on yourself. You are normal!0