Okay so I'm literally lost. My boyfriends ex lives in another country. And they do still text. And she told him that she'll eat a pill and that she is not okay, and also that she loves him. And she'll kill herself if she would find out that he has a new girlfriend (me). And he asked me to help him come up with something to say to her. And also clearly he've told me that he loves me and that he wants to be with me.
Most Helpful Guy
Then why is he texting her if he loves you so much. Anytime a person threatens suicide it's nothing but a controlling manipulation ploy. You are never responsible for another's actions. You tell her to stop talking about it and get after it that it won't change a thing. Next kick your boyfriend in the balls for staying in contact with his ex0
Most Helpful Girl
I mean she can't stop him from moving on with his life and you don't deserve to be a secret in his life. She's only saying that to control him. Maybe it's better for all of you if he just stop texting her so she can't get her life together and in a right state of mind.0