I'm kind of feeling miserable and like I want to be cuddled and there's a dude I have in mind, but it's also a dude who's been waiting to have sex with me for a bit now.
Problem is I feel too sad and mopey for that and would rather just spoon in bed and watch netflix, so I dunno if I should even contact him or suck it up and force my dogs to lay with me.
Most Helpful Guy
I don't recommend it if he hasn't fucked you already. It would be hard (pun intended) to not try to feel you up and do more than cuddling when screwing you has been on his mind for a while now. That's just a tease. You should find another friends with benefits person who would do that. If not I'm sure your dogs won't mind laying next to you.2
Most Helpful Girl
No, don't contact him, if you don't want to do it. All you want to do is cuddle, but he wants something else. Yeah, that isn't a good idea. Just get your dog to lay with you. Besides dogs are fluffy, so it is like having a friendly pillow or something... lol 😁1