Sometimes i get too nervous to start a conversation with someone and then we eventually fall out of contact.
I get sweaty hands and all, i can't sit still and if i force myself to start a conversation anyway while nervous i mess it up by being stupid and then the person i talk to stops replying and then i feel so bad about myself.
Im sick of it. How do i fix this?
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first-be the FIRST one to stop texting... leave them wanting more and you'll also avoid feeling how you do when THEY stop texting.
2nd-dont be so serious about it, fuck it, who cares... that should be your attitude and that attitude WILL cut down on what happens and have a positive cycle instead of the negative one you have right now...
3rd-just treat texting like a stop n chat, like you bumped into them. I'm a very good texter (they almost always text me first and last) and if i do initiate, it's no big deal "Sup girl!" and let it flow naturally...
lastly - who cares how long it's been... I've texted women a month or so after not hearing from them and i dont even act like time has passed...
the problem i run into is if you come on too strong, (ie she's your #1) then shift her into a lower spot-many women get a bit cold for a spell whenyou do this and take a few days of texting to get them back up to... happy texting lol1