I am going to move out eventually, right now I just can't because of economic problems. After I graduate from college this semester I would get my career job that would pay way better than my current job. Anyways, when I get my own place, I would hardly contact my parents, or sister by phone or online and I will hardly visit them. They have always been assholes to me and I will hardly contact and visit my extended family members too ( they are all assholes as well). Also, I will not let them visit my place, unless I tell them too. I will make sure I let them know that. If they don't respect the wishes, would it be messed up if I issue a restraining order?
How do I make sure my immediate and extended family respect my decision that I hardly want to visit and contact them once I live on my own?
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In some way , I can relate to you. I have a F'd up family too with disturbing family secrets and I want to move far away from the lot. However, as much as you try , you can get away from family. Believe me. You may travel to a next state or country all together but something always draws you back there. Its familiar but at the same time destructive. Your best bet is when they die. That sounds harsh (:( :( ) sorry but yea. With regards to them respecting your decision, I dont think they would but you can still do whats best for you.0
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