I was in an accident and destroyed my car. I was without a car for 11 months. In this time period all I did was work and go back home. I started to gain weight and get depressed. Before this I was the life of the party women loved to be around me I was very social. After the single car accident I isolated myself from everyone. People offered to get me out of the house but I declined because if I can't leave when I want then I don't go. During that time I felt like a prisoner in my own home. Now I'm fatter (lol) no longer depressed cause I have a new car and I can get out the house. But my self esteem dropped I'm no longer as confident as I use to be. I'm also not social as I use to be. Everyone think I'm still a people's person I just don't see how. I know of women who like me but I don't make a move cause I just don't see what they would see in me now that I'm fat. I'm working full time and I'm an engineer major full time. I want to get my Grove back? Lol how can I get my self esteem back? How can I gain confidence in myself again. I have no problem taking to women it's just I'm not confident enough to make a move as I once was.
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Get out the house more get active workout etc etc1