This means straight to the point, regardless if they didn't like my answer. If I'm not interested, he's too old, he's not my type or see it's simply not working out then I'll say that. I don't want to waste his time nor my time.
There was only one time I tried the "you're ok, let's be friends for the mean time" route but I got sick of it. He would keep persisting and I ended getting several missed calls.
I can careless if their feelings got hurt. I'm not into sugarcoating nor telling someone how nice they are, when it's bs.
Most Helpful Guy
A few girls are very direct and too honest. While the rest are more diplomatic an shy type. Girls who are honest and direct don't waste much time in letting you know what they want in a relationship. You make fell that they are more truthful but diplomatically rough. Other girls will never tell you what is going in their mind and they will take unnecessarily too long a time to give feedback. So you decide which ones you prefer. usually guys dont like the direct and honest types.1
Most Helpful Girl
Again like you said it's not your place to sugarcoat anything. I'm the same way with that sense. I tell the truth about that. Im a friendly person overall, but I don't want anybody to take advantage of the offer for friendship either. So if they have a problem with it, then goodbye to them. As long as your not looking to do it deliberately to hurt them, it shouldn't have to be a problem. If it is, then their simply not for you. Find somebody who is equally sharing your views.1