So I am going travelling with a guy friend next year, we just booked tickets yesterday... however we did kinda book in a rush in order to take advantage of a flight deal that was happening. (he said he would be happy to go with me the day before we booked cause I was complaining to him that i wanted to go but none of my close friends were able to go with me).
So now we are travelling together for 3 weeks. I have known him for roughly five years, we met each other through work and still work together. We get along pretty well and I think we'd be alright to travel with platonically. I have had a friend mention to me that she thinks he liked me, however I usually have a pretty good gut feeling if I think someone is interested in me, and I have no gut feeling with him that he's interested. Should I tell him straight up just in case that I have no intentions of turning this into something more than friends or should I just let it go and hope he's on the same wavelength as me?
Most Helpful Guy
i think over the course of time you can sort of make it clear that this is just a platonic thing without specifically saying it. based on your plans and actions towards him you can make it clear that this is not romantic innuendo.1
Most Helpful Girl
It depends has he been flirting with you? Does he treat you differently than he treats other people? Does he show any signs that he likes you more than a friend? If you answered yes to any of these then he might like like you and you know so you might wamana tell him but you don't have to be straight up about it. But if you answered no to these questions he may just like you as a friend! I personally have gig friends where we both only like each other as friends0