I am in Charge of all of my Parent's Affairs. I also own the House they live in, along with my other Two siblings.
My Dad was recently Diagnosed with a Tumor in his Lower Intestine, which has our Family very worried. He is going to have it Removed as Soon as he is Instructed to do so, and of course, we will Know whether or Not it is Malignant, which We are Praying that it isn't.
I have been thinking if Anything would happen, what I Should do about my Mom? I don't Want her left alone in the Woodsy part of the Country, and even though she is Surrounded by Friends and other Family, everyone has their Own lives.
Perhaps I Would go Stay with her, if anything Happened to my dad. I could Continue my own life of course. That would be no problem. However, I am not sure I Want to go Back to Living in the Country again. I have a life that I do have, a very Active One at that, and I am Contented with this.
It's A lot to Think about.
What would any of You do if it was your Own parents? What would you Do if your Parents one day Suddenly... Needed you in a Crisis situation where One of them Would be left Alone at Home?
Thank you, everyone, who has Shared this Sad time with me. xx
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I have been through this - I know it is impossible to do but try not to worry - What I mean is that you don't know what is happening till your father's tests come back - What your are doing now is coming up with 27 different plans with an (a), (b), (c), (d) and (e) possibilities attached freaking yourself out - Wait till your father results come back and hopefully your father will be alright but if something has happened, sit down with your parents , siblings, close family and close family friends to decide a plan. In my case when I got all the information , with my family, we made some big decisions but even within that things changed forthnightly, maybe even weekly sometimes daily. You are in my thoughts but I can't emphasize enough "Cross that bridge when you come to it, IF you come to it" - You will be no good to your father, worried sick.1
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