I can't accept my feelings against men. I want to like girls. What can I do?
Most Helpful Girl
Self acceptance... you are who you are, .. nothing wrong with you... enjoy being you and love yourself its OKAY to be attracted to men... hell be attracted to both... but accept that its OK to like guys.. shit who wouldn't your all so sexy !1
Most Helpful Guy
you have feelings against men or you are attracted to them.
I've heard of someone who had knowledge to help understand yourself and maybe heal. If you are serious, I'll look it up.
In general, I don't know why people are gay or lesbian or whatever. But I do know how we feel and who we are attracted to has some roots in childhood experiences and conditioning. That could be a feeder root into what you feel towards men. A lot of what we learn as children isn't true about us or the environment, it was conditioning of some situation that was in fact bad, not loving. So, healing from those things sets you free to have other feelings.
make some sense?1