Way back in June, I broke up with an ex that was been a total jerk for a while and stressing me out. Then afterwards I found out, he was cheating a couple months before we broke up.
Just recently he confessed the real reason he stopped visiting me at some point: he felt my house was somewhat haunted and that he felt as if someone didn't want him in.
I never felt anything he mentioned. Those things only happened to him but no one else. However, when I told my aunt and another relative about it, they believe that was grandfather letting him know he's not welcomed (he died when I was just 4 and I was his only grandchild at the time).
I have very little memories of him but when he was alive, he would say to others how he'll always watch over me even if I can't see him and that anyone that messes with me will deal with him.
- No, your ex boyfriend is imagining thingsVote A
- Yes, maybe that was your grandfatherVote B
- Maybe, I mixed feelings about itVote C
Most Helpful Guy
It's a possibility.
I remember when I was living in my parents house when I was younger. This was early in the morning, when it was near time for me to get ready to wake up but I was lying in bed thinking of different things. This was the morning I had to go to the college I wanted, and apply and get things organized to start a proper career. Well, for some odd reason I looked over at the entrance to my bedroom, which faces a set of stairs and the stairs lead into a living area. I swear, even to this day, I saw a figure of a black woman in a white kind of night-gown with longish curly hair with a white scarf-like headband around her hair. But two things about this shocked me. One, my dad and mom were asleep and my mom doesn't dress and look like this for night-time. And secondly, I didn't really see her feet and it was if she was kind of floating down with traces sort of coming off of her. Like if you wave your hand in front of an old picture tube TV screen and see your hand traces. I don't know where she came from and when she was finished coming down the stairs, she vanished. I sat STRAIGHT up in my bed and just sat there for a bit, trying to take it in and understand what I just saw. Then I asked my Dad that was sleeping in the couch in the room where she apparently went into about if he say her. He said, "No". But he did say that sometimes he get's visitors of past relatives and such. My Mom said that it was probably one of my past aunts trying to make sure I'm ready to get to the college.
I believe there are things in life not easily explained away or reasoned or that have clear cut answers to. But, aside from all that shit your ex said, it still wasn't an excuse (if it was an excuse) for him to fuck around on you. But if your parents think it might be your grandfather, then there are worse spirits out there that could be around you. Be thankful you have a guardian angel.1
Most Helpful Girl
I Strongly Believe in The... After Life. E$specially a Love d One, hun.
My own grandma Came to her Wake years ago. Her cross began Swaying as 17 of us were Surrounding her coffin, letting us know She was at Peace now, not Sick anymore, and to Thank us for Being there for her.
She was around for awhile, Gramps too.
I would Take your Ex's word for What he said. Ghosts, especially a Loved one, have this Uncanny way to let Someone else Know what You may Not... Know.
Good luck. xx1