I will admit that there have been guys that I have been really interested in but was too shy to text/call first. I've been told that if a guy doesn't contact you that he obviously interested but could he just be nervous like me? I know we live in a society where guys are expected to always initiate contact so does this mean even the shyer guys always just initiate first no matter what or can their shyness stop them also?
Most Helpful Guy
Well there are times where a guy doesn't want to contact because he believes the girl isn't interested and wants to save face. It's to think that a girl is interested, but it can be misinterpreted. I know girls go through the same thing though. I think in your case, you should reach out.0
Most Helpful Girl
The shyness is a barrier for people , which means that when they develop a crush. You have to read their body language and sadly, you might also have to take him by the hand and do all of the initiating for them until he feels more comfortable in your presence. They don't get very far with me because I refuse to take them by the hand. Take it from someone who used to be shy, none of my crushes e er helped me out. Its how I learned, to talk to people that I was interested in.0
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