Most Helpful Girl
Um... in a partner? Attitude.
However I would be lying if I told you money isn't important.
In the last 10 months since I've graduated from college and gained full time employment, I have learned that I have a great fear of not being financially stable.
I also recently became engaged and while I've been very frugal since gaining employment, I've now picked up more shifts than usual. I typically pick up 2 shifts a month but now I'm picking up 2 shifts a week. So now I'm redirecting my savings to save so I can support us once we're married because I know he won't be employed right away.
I want to be financially stable. It's not necessarily the job of my SO to make that happen.1
Most Helpful Guy
I prefer a woman have all three, though if necessary I'll settle for a torso and perhaps a head. The head is optional!0