On average, do you enjoy receiving compliments?

  • compliments can make my day
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  • very much
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  • yes
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  • i don't care
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  • i dislike it
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  • it depends
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1mo I'm aware some people dislike it because they doubt it.
1mo How often do you get them?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • "I'm aware some people dislike it because they doubt it."

    Yup. We can sense bullshit from a distance. It's rare to see an honest compliment, that isn't:
    1) fake
    2) ass kissing
    3) pity

    It's good when someone recognises our work though.. Happened to me once this week, and I can say I haven't received such an honest compliment for a long time now.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Only if they are sincere and less generic.

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What Guys Said 27

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  • I said it can make my day, but it also depends on how secure I feel cause I might think they are just saying it and don't mean it.

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  • Honestly speaking no I don't enjoy receiving compliments. I never do.

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    • 1mo

      I do get them regularly.

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      Yes, I have my reasons:

      1. First I know that there is very little chance that the compliments are genuine. In fact many times I doubt if they are compliments also are not. Hence I can never believe them.

      2. I actually get annoyed when someone compliments me, i't like they are not serious seems like a tease to me and so I don't appreciate that.

      3. When people tell something good about me, or compliment me it seems like it's impulsive on their end, like they are not complimenting me after understanding me, it's like they are complimenting me for the sake of it and that's what I think is true in most cases.

      4. In most cases I think they are just lying about it. It could be white lies on their end. I don't know but there is this doubt and so I never enjoy receiving compliments.

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    • 1mo

      cont..

      Yes, I am confident in my own ways and I do believe in myself but still I can never believe when people compliment me, I never enjoy their compliments. It actually annoys me. When people do compliment me I just don't say anything. I just ignore their words, I don't react, I don't do anything. After a while I'll walk away from there.

      Whatever I said that is the truth. I want to thank you for asking this, because many people they just assume something but you didn't and you actually asked me what are my reasons.

      Thanks for that.

  • Men rarely get compliments, so when I get one I relish it. :)

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  • Well, who doesn't?

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  • I never liked getting compliments

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  • I like receiving them... not that it would happen often, lol. And if it happens I start arguing xD

    @archiz lol

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  • if i got any i might have an answer! :(

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  • I picked I don't care, but really it's I don't get any

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  • Yeah, it's always nice to hear

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  • Compliments are VERY rare if you are male , have been complimented on my children's behaviour ( I'm strict ) , but can't remember a personal compliment !!

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  • They can make my day

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  • yeah i do

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  • I'm not always accepting of compliments. Especially regarding intimacy, I just don't know whether to believe them or take them too seriously when they say I'm "big" or good or whatever

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  • It depends. In my experience it usually precedes a request for help.

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  • Compliments from anyone will make me happy.

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  • Who doesn't like compliments?

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  • Yeah they are pleasant? What about you?

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  • I am complimented a lot on my height usually. They cool I guess

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  • Not really.

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  • yeah I need my ego stroked daily

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  • I do, it definitely makes me happy.

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  • Well don't believe women have ever complimented me

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  • I dont really like it but twice a week would be fine

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  • I find the best compliment a girl can give a guy is sucking his dick and telling him how much she loves his cock.

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  • Yeah but its rare because women think men don't like them, we do like them.

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  • I don't care about receiving compliments as they only say the stuff about me that I already know.

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What Girls Said 18

  • Not really because most of the time I just think people are lying. I don't really get a lot of compliments though, thankfully 😄

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    • 1mo

      you said it
      when we compliment you
      you don t believe us
      but when people insult you, you believe them lol

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      @archiz hmm yeah it's a kinda stupid logic but I can't change it :/

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      I understand

  • I hate being complimented.

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  • Yes, they're flattering, and I appreciate them.

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  • It depends. Sometimes I don't mind but other times I get insecure, probably down to bullying I received as a kid

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  • Yes.

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  • who doesn t XD

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  • Only if it is sincere.

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  • Very much.

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    • 1mo

      Almost everyday, sometimes many times a day and It makes me feel so good! :)

  • when i listen to some of the compliments, i actually get positive vibes inside my body and feel confident...

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  • Yeah ofc. Depends from who tho

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  • I dislike it only because I've learned so many of them are not genuine.

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  • yes.

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  • I love them.

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  • Yes, I like getting them. They always kinda brighten my mood.

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  • Yes when I feel they are genuine

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  • of course as long as they are meant honestly

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  • Yes, I love being complemented, but a lot of the time I find it hard to believe the person. =)

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    • 1mo

      To answer the question of How Often Do You Get Them?: Not much. Maybe something like once a month? I'm never complemented by guys though.

  • I get them a lot. I don't care but I'm appreciative.

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    • 1mo

      No, don't doubt it. Just tired of hearing it. haha

    • 1mo

      Every day from my best male room mate who appreciates all I do to help him at home and am a good friend besides.

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