Like if a girl complains a guy treated her badly.
She must not be pretty enough. She must not be that smart.
No one respects her.
Why do people think like this? I wonder if there's even some truth to their thinking. Maybe the guy treated her badly because well he's a big fat JERK?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think most people think like that. If they don't know either party, they generally don't have an opinion. If they do know one or both, their opinion is usually based on what they think of the person - if the girl is a drama queen in other areas of her life, they probably blame her. If she is nice and easy to like, or if the guy is known as a d-bag, they would blame him.
What makes you think the girl is always blamed?0
Most Helpful Girl
Love, I am sure not everyone acts like this but I am sorry for the people that have said these things or acted like this. It is not always the case, but it does pop up. they may not be blaming the victim but maybe only blaming that confusion as to why it had happened in the first place, that tends to be something that I see a lot they may not be blaming the victim but maybe only blaming that confusion as to why it had happened in the first place, that tends to be something that I see a lot.
I am sorry if you have been treated badly by any guy, that isn't right. I believe that if a man treats a woman wrongly, he is not a man. And the same, if a woman mistreats a man, she is not a true woman. All people in general should have respect and care for one another. I have no respect for neither man nor woman that mistreats their significant other. But I do not feel that all men are like this. Maybe just the few that you've come in contact with. There are 8 billion people on this planet and around half of them are men. They are not all big fat jerks. I hope you find the right man, God has a plan. Don't worry Too much.0