Playful cockiness or humility? Which one do you prefer in the opposite gender?

Why did you choose the option you chose?

  • Playful cockiness
    51% (35)37% (21)44% (56)Vote
  • Humility
    42% (29)40% (23)41% (52)Vote
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    7% (5)23% (13)15% (18)Vote
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Genuine humility—not low self-esteem or beating oneself up.

    I want a guy that's confident enough that he has no need to rub it in people's faces, but also doesn't talk down on himself.

    He can acknowledge his strengths, be proud when he's accomplished something, and admit when he's wrong or doesn't know how to do something.

    He has a grip of REALITY.

    Why is this so hard?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't know about cocky , but by nature , I'm cheeky to people I know because I love banter & enjoy getting flak back , know too many that give it out , but spit their dummies out when they get return fire.

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    • 1mo

      I think cheekiness would have been the right option for this question

What Girls Said 17

  • Honestly, I like both depending on the situation. If we're just hanging out and joking, I like a cocky playful guy. When things get serious, a little humility goes a long way.

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  • A nice mixture of the two would be perfect lol

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  • Dylan, I can't choose. 😐

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  • I prefer a guy thats humble but also has a sense of humor

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  • While I like both I respect humility in people because so few people actually possess it. And I don't mean being a doormat.

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  • Both... cocky playfulness is alright occasionally, but I'd prefer humility where it counts.

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  • Confidence... not cockiness

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  • both :P

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  • Id say both.

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  • Oooo, I like a little of both.

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  • humility for sure
    cockiness disgusts me

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  • I dunno

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  • Someone who I can trust so I would say humility. I hate when people think they're better than someone else

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  • I love playful cockiness in guys. Anybody can have humility but being to be playfully cocky you have to be confident, smart and be able to crack a joke at the right time. Which are great qualities to have in someone you're going to spend a lot of time with. This doesn't mean being arrogant of course. Confidence, without arrogance is key

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  • I just like a guy who is comfortable with them-self... you'd be surprised how rare that seeme to be... lol.

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  • Humility can get a little boring at times. Playful cockiness is only marginally more interesting though.

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What Guys Said 10

  • I have to say a bit of both - Someone who is cheeky but not a smart ass and genuinely a bit humble.

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  • It really depends but humility would be the one I usually choose

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  • Interesting. Women prefer cockiness, and men prefer humility... by a large margin.

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  • i want truth in her
    if she has no truth I don't want her lol

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  • Cocky playfulness is more fun-stimulating

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  • i like playful cockiness in a woman. they're a lot more fun to be around.

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  • humility

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  • I like girls who are self-confident and assertive, not cocky.

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  • if women get cocky I'll slap them... hard

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    • 1mo

      sure you do lol
      gd lck with that

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    • 1mo

      lmfao hahaha
      yea now we re talking haaha

    • 1mo

      ahahaha!!!

      (should I even be laughing?)

  • whichever gives little resistance with my big tremendous hands... ;)

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