Do you find it hard to say no?

Like even when I want to say no I just can't because I don't want to be mean or something, it kinda sucks.

Anyone else feel the same way?

  • Yes
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  • Nah
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1mo Okay so it seems like many people have the same problem as me, that's good LOL.

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  • Yes, especially with food. I brought cookies for my class once and I ended up having a lot left. Some girl asked if she could have them. I was going to say no since I wanted to share them with my friends, but I said "yeah, take them all." ._.

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    • 1mo

      Ya like sometimes it's an in the moment thing and I am like " I should definitely say no" but what comes out from my mouth is completely different.

    • 1mo

      Exactly.

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What Girls Said 19

  • I have to say no to a lot of things otherwise id be sick all the time. So by the time you've turned down holiday get togethers for several years running, saying no to everyday things is super easy.

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  • Yes a lot.. I try and hint "no" majority of the time or word my sentences in a way that will hint no. Got to learn to say no otherwise you'll end up getting used as a doormat :/

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    • 1mo

      Yup been there LOL, I gotta try to say no more often.

  • Yeah, I pretty much never actually say no to people. I suck at it.

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  • Yes. It can be hard to say no depending on the person or situation. I walk the balance of saying not saying no not to upset someone or to keep the peace. Usually it backfires. Leading to misunderstandings.

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  • I feel same. It sucks and people use it :(

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    • 1mo

      Yup haha.

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    • 1mo

      You too :)

    • 1mo

      thank you :)

  • Absolutely. 😕

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  • Sometimes. Depends on what they want from me haha.

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  • Sometimes, yes.

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  • sometimes
    gotta practice and put your own well being first

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  • Yes a majority of the time with most people and always with @suitandtie.

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  • I'm the same way some times.

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  • No, I don't find it hard.

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  • Yeah but I'm trying to say it more aha NO

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  • I don't

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  • yes!!! i find it so hard!

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  • Yeah lol

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  • No
    😂😂

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    Me:*you need it keep it* (what I think)
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    Yes of course would you like the left or right one? Would you also like some of my liver (what I say)

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What Guys Said 7

  • No, not at all. In fact I can say "NO" very easily. On the contrary I find it hard to say "Yes".

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  • Yeah I hate saying no when someone asks for my help.

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    • 1mo

      Do you usually help anyways or just say no.

    • 1mo

      Yeah I do find it extremely hard to say no. When they push I usually give in. Especially at work.
      Even when I have personal stuff to do. It is really hard to say no. It gets annoying somwtimes.

    • 1mo

      Haha yup I know whatcha mean.

  • Sometimes it's easier to just say yes. Some people will put the guilt trip on you and make you feel bad.

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  • Nope when I don't want to do something I won't do it, I'm really stubborn that way.

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  • Lol no.

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  • Dammmnn you aren't kidding you didn't even put No as a choice

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  • Girls do, especially in some cases.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZ1lc6KASWg

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