So I'm 4'11 I use to weigh 250 and now I'm 220 so my bra size is a 36L and no it's not fat it's hereditary the women on my dad side of family had huge breasts and they weren't fat at all ( so even when I reach my goal weight they will still be big ).
So while shopping with my friends they wanted to do a celebration shopping for me. So while I was trying on my clothes in the fitting room, I had 0 confidence, I wanted to give up because I didn't look right in the shirts and dresses my friends picked out for me. They gave me the right sizes but I still didn't look right in them.
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Unfortunately this is what happens when you have larger boobs. I have the same problem! I'm a G cup and even then I find I don't look right in a lot of shirts. Or if I do find shirts I like, the rest of the shirt is baggy, but it fits well in the boob area.
My tip is to just go with stretchy stuff. It's unfortunate, but it's all you can do unless you can find someone to tailor your clothes. Only get a reduction if that is what you want to do. It's serious surgery and I would put a lot of thought into it.
I always hate when people suggest that to me. I don't have any kids yet so I see no point in getting a reduction, plus I have no other issues other than not being able to find clothes.
When you have big boobs, it can sometimes make it look like you are bigger than you are. Or the boobs will always be the main focus on your body. That's the thing I struggle with the most. I feel self-conscious wearing tops that show any cleavage because I always feel like it's too much.
But the best thing you can do is layer with tank tops and buy stretchy tops that will fit over your boobs. Get creative.
Sheer tops are great, and then just wear a crop top underneath or a tank top. Get a good bra to support you and it will help as well.