i always hear people talking about how important a father daughter relationship is and is it really that important? or that your father is like your first love and he shows you how to set your own standards n stuff... im not going to lie sometimes i do wish i had a father daughter relationship but then its kinda like im not 5 im older so is it really that important? my dad went to jail when i was a little little girl and from time to time he would write me but then i stopped and he stopped too. i have a stepfather who i dont like but i dont dislike either... his son who is now older use to molest me when i was 8 and when he was 14. and i just now told my mom. my friends and other people always tell me how i may sleep around with other men but i dont even think i really like men they seem like fboys and disgusting immature things... but i know that the being lesbian is something that i dont want to be either.
but the whole point of this was is a father daughter relationship that important or is the word just used wayyyyy to much
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First of all, I'm sorry you went through what you did. Secondly, I think it's more about the bond you two have when you're younger than helps you grow, and the fact that they'd be another person there to support you. I agree that honestly you probably don't need it now because you learned what he would have taught you by yourself/by your step dad. What I will say however in regards to you thinking men are fuck boys, honestly I don't blame you, from your paste experiences you have every right to think that. However, I think if you hold that mindset with all guys you're going to close yourself off to the few that aren't fuck boys and actually care about ya. So while it may be hard, you might want to try to give guys a chance to prove they are fuck boys rather than assume they are.0