It seems that the guys who get sex are not as nice to them as the ones that don't.
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I think you should be better than nice. I think you should be a good man. I think you should believe in making the world a better place by increasing the kindness and joy in the world. You have the conviction to do the right thing BECAUSE IT'S THE RIGHT THING. You stand fast in this belief even if others don't.
Now, that being said, women don't like jerks, nor do they like nice guys. I've said this before many times. WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO ATTRACTIVE MEN. Sometimes this makes other considerations take a back seat.
Being a GOOD MAN, alas, doesn't always make one attractive. Being an as hole doesn't make one attractive either. Whether or not we're attracted to someone is, alas, often a separate issue from this person being good or not.
Therefore, be a good, honorable, courageous man because it's the right thing to do. Then ask yourself, "How can I make myself attractive to women?" (because that's a separate issue).
So, how are you making your body, mind, and life attractive to women?1