If I don't talk to them, there's virtually no way in hell they'd talk to me. If I even walk towards their way, they'll look away. When I say something as simple as a hi with a smile, they'll just say hi then walk away.
My friends ask me why I'm alone and not having fun. I just say, "I got no idea". They'll reply.. you know what? It's because you make them uncomfortable." I just don't get it... I just don't get why they'd be uncomfortable when I've tried everything - being friendly, being neutral, being distant..
I really am starting to think that it's my race and that others won't understand me because they haven't been in my shoes. I know you guys/girls don't know me so can't judge whether I make people feel uncomfortable or not.. but all I want to know from you is.. what have your experiences been with other Indian guys? Do you feel they're second class? Do you feel that it's just an accepted norm to blow off Indian guys?
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I know some Indians - same westernized, and they are extremely judgy and disrespectful to girls.. I don't know about you, but the majority of Indians I've known and talked to don't give off a good vibe and I don't want to be around those kind of people.0