A lot of girls say confidence is really attractive. A few years ago, I had no confidence due to bullying, but now I've built up my confidence and definitely feel confident. How do I give off a confident image without coming off as cocky?
Most Helpful Girl
Confidence is hella attractive but i'm low key not confident either so I feel you :')
Confidence takes a lot of work but there's a difference between being a cocky asshole and being confident. Don't overdue it by bragging or looking in the mirror a lot or speaking really highly of yourself, to have confidence you have to be comfortable in your own skin, you have to be outgoing and social, you can't be afraid to face challenges and to take advantage of opportunities, make the big steps like asking a girl out and stuff like that.0
Most Helpful Guy
Confidence comes from positive results. In essence women have a system where those who do well continue to move up and those who do not continue to get pushed down. No different in real world where the rich gets richer and poor get poorer.
In essence confidence cannot be faked. It comes from having positive results in something and in dating that means getting a yes from a girl rather than a no more often than not.
So hit the gym, get a nice hair cut, get nice clothes to boost your chance of getting a YES. Being confident without boosting your physical attribute will not change your current situation.
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