Okay so I am the legal guardian of my brother, and well lately he has been getting bullied. It's getting worse as days go by and he is getting bullied because he is Asian. Sometimes these kids will verbally and physically taunt him. And I have contacted the school faculty but they will do absolutely nothing about it. The bullying is still going on and I don't want him to go through this. As a child I was also bullied for this reason so I understand how he feels. It's really affecting him he can't focus in school, his grades are dropping, and sometimes he is afraid to even go to school.
Most Helpful Guy
Tell him the next time they fuck with him, hit the biggest one as hard as he can, right in the throat. Or the nuts. And then really tear into them, and don't stop until someone physically pulls him off the guy.
Some people say nose, but soft targets are easier on your hand. You won't break a bone in your hand hitting someone in the throat. And, you can still swing at someone after getting blasted in the nose. But when you take a hit to the throat and can't breathe, most people stop and think about the choices they've made in life.2
Most Helpful Girl
Gosh that's aweful. But I look at is as we can't protect our kids or siblings forever but we can give them tools that last forever in dealing with this kind of hate and harassment. How did you deal? Did you deal? How could you have dealt better? And maybe seek advice from your community.
I've never seen an Asian kid bullied but I hear it happens in California. I was the yearbook photographer in high school and standing in the sidelines heard a very good friend called the N word and told worse during a basketball game. He was the best layer in our district but it got to him at first and it broke my heart. But his Mama called out some encouraging words that were code and he was back in line playing great.
It only effects you if you let it. Trust me I was bullied to and only you can give them that power. Once it ceases to land they move on to someone else.2