I asked this guy twice if he wants to hang out ( I want to apologize for some stuff from before. Just miscommunication where he felt rejected, where i just was not ready for a relationship but i did not explain it.)
"He started off confused then got annoyed. Today -annoyed- he asked what I want. I told him very calmly , friendly, honestly.
"Well, originally I asked you if you wanted to hang out because I wanted to be alone so we could talk alone. I just thought hanging out first would make it more friendly. I didn't want you to feel like it was something bad when I just want to explain things. But, you seem pretty annoyed. Honestly the idea of trying to explain myself -which is hard enough- to someone who is annoyed with the idea of hanging out with me, is not appealing. I just wouldn't be comfortable. I'd feel like you thought you were doing me some kind of favor , or were bored , or didn't want to be there... so its best we forget it."
He looked disappointed, so i added :
" We can do this. IF you for whatever reason decide you feel like hanging out, let me now, and then we can 'talk'. (I smiled) See you later."
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